Over the years, one question has continued to fascinate me: Why do equally talented people experience such different creative lives? Why does one writer keep going while another gives up? Why do two people with similar abilities produce dramatically different results?
Talent certainly matters. Opportunity matters. Timing matters. But I’ve become convinced that one factor quietly influences all the others: the story we believe about ourselves.
Our brains are constantly interpreting our experiences and weaving them into a personal narrative. That narrative influences not only how we see the past, but also how willing we are to take creative risks in the present. When our inner story is filled with self-doubt, criticism, or old fears, our confidence suffers. But when we begin to reshape that story, new possibilities often emerge.
Think of these questions:
How was I treated as a child?
How do I remember my childhood?
What would life be like if I were happy?
The good news is that changing your inner story doesn’t require years of analysis. Sometimes all it takes is a quiet moment and a simple writing exercise that invites your imagination to do what it does best: reveal new possibilities. Try this exercise.
The Exercise
All you need is a pen, a piece of paper, and a timer.
We’re not trying to excavate every childhood memory or determine what “really happened.” Memory isn’t a recording device. Each time we remember, the brain reconstructs the past using emotion, belief, present perspective, and fragments of experience. That means imagination can become a powerful creative partner, helping us loosen stories that may no longer serve us.
Close your eyes, take a deep breath, relax, and give yourself the Self-Acknowledgement Hug.
Think of a childhood memory, and allow an image to come to mind. Write a word for that image in the center circle.
When I first tried this exercise, I saw an outdoor rabbit hutch with several oversized rabbits peacefully munching carrots.
The image surprised me.
Then I remembered a summer when I was two years old. My parents shared a beach house on Long Island with another couple. Their friend, Ruth, was a speech therapist. I had a beloved rabbit named Bunny and struggled with a terrible stutter. Somehow, talking to my rabbit, with Ruth’s encouragement, helped me begin to find my voice.
Take another deep breath, and when another image comes to mind, place a word for that image in another circle. Continue until you’ve filled four or five more circles.
Finally, set your timer for five minutes and write a short story using the words in your cluster. Then take a moment to reflect.
As I wrote about my rabbit, I realized something I had never consciously considered before. The people I remembered most vividly from that summer were Ruth and her husband. My parents were almost absent from the memory. Without trying to analyze everything, I simply noticed that observation and allowed it to be enough.
Then I asked a different question:
If this story could support me instead of limit me, what might it look like?
I wasn’t trying to change history. I was changing the emotional story my imagination carried forward. I imagined a version of that summer where I felt deeply supported, loved, and encouraged as I learned to speak more confidently.
As I wrote, I noticed my body relax. I found myself smiling. Something inside me felt lighter.
Neuroscience suggests that imagination and memory share many of the same neural pathways. When we intentionally create new images and emotional experiences on the page, we aren’t pretending. We’re practicing new ways of thinking. That shift can influence confidence, creativity, and even our willingness to take action.
Repeat the same process with these two questions:
How do I remember my childhood?
and
What would life be like if I were truly happy?
Each question invites your imagination to offer another doorway into your inner world.
Don’t worry if your images seem strange or unexpected. Imagination often speaks in symbols rather than explanations. The goal isn’t to interpret every detail perfectly. The goal is simply to notice what appears and allow it to guide your writing.
If childhood doesn’t feel like the right place to begin, try another approach. Choose a single word instead, perhaps confidence, courage, freedom, or joy. Write the word at the top of your page and ask your imagination for an image. Often that one image naturally leads to the story your subconscious is ready to tell.
Why This Matters for Writers
Confidence isn’t really the goal. Creative freedom is.
When we’re trapped inside old stories, we hesitate. We second-guess ourselves. We edit before we’ve even created. Those familiar inner narratives quietly consume the energy imagination needs to explore, experiment, and discover something new.
Let’s Write Together
On Monday, July 13 at 7:00 p.m. ET, I’ll be hosting a FREE webinar where we’ll use the Word of the Day Practice to quiet the inner critic and boost your creativity. Working alongside a community of fellow writers, you’ll leave with practical tools you can use anytime you need and a boost of confidence or inspiration.
I hope to see you there!
Here’s to your personal success.
Professor Marilyn Horowitz
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Monday, July 13, 7:00 pm EST
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